Is a terrible thing.. and the pain you feel when you know you helped cause the thing you loved the most to be taken from you is even worse.
 
Never take what you have for granted, because it only takes a second for it to be all gone. Some people need to realize that there is more to life then just petty things to argue about. Life is about love and expansion, about journeys and people, life is too short to worry about things that are out of your control, or directly in your control but don't need any attention.
 
Sometimes you think you have it figured out, but then you find yourself doing what you said you wouldn't. People like this need two things. 1. Someone to tell them 2. The will to change
 
Sometimes people need to be hurt in order to realize what they have, and what they can lose. But if two people love each other with more then their heart, then all it takes is time and change to make everything perfect (as perfect as it can be).
 
People will argue with each other because it's normal to not agree all the time. But there is a fine line between arguing about something important and something that is petty and not important at all. And to make a relationship work, if there is arguing over petty things, or whatever - the people that seem to let it get to them need to realize that it is petty, and arguing for the sake of being right, or not understanding something is foolish, and can only lead to negative things, never positive.
 
You may think you are changing, and you may think you have realized what you have. But until you actually make the effort to change, nothing will. Things might be fine for awhile but eventually it will creep up on you and then that might be it. So be concious of what you think and say, and understand when things are petty and important, because would you rather be alone and argue about petty things, or be in love and share your life with someone special?
 
I think the answer is pretty obvious, don't you?
Sometimes you find someone , and the only thing getting in the way is something so silly that can be fixed if you make the effort to change. And sometimes it's too late to realize what you had, so realize it now.. live in the now and know what you have.
 
I for one, have a wonderful, caring, beautiful, and understanding girl that i love with more then words can describe. And i wouldn't trade her for anything, and i would change the world for her. But i think all she wants is something small to change. And i think for the first time, i can actually say i can do it for her.. for us.